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Parenting Agreements
Clear arrangements for the decisions that affect your children.
Parenting arrangements can involve decisions about where children live, the time they spend with each parent and how important decisions about their care are made. The right arrangements will depend on your family’s circumstances and what is in the best interests of your children.
Patterson & Co provides advice and representation on parenting matters in Toowoomba, from negotiated agreements and consent orders to more complex disputes requiring court involvement.
Parenting advice and representation
Patterson & Co advises and represents clients across a broad range of family law matters in Toowoomba and throughout the surrounding regions. From separation and parenting arrangements to complex property and financial matters, our advice is shaped by your circumstances and the legal issues involved.
Parenting Agreements
Advice on clear, workable parenting arrangements addressing your children’s care, living arrangements and time with each parent.
Consent Orders
Advice on formalising agreed parenting arrangements through consent orders, creating legally enforceable arrangements without contested court proceedings.
Parenting Plans
Advice on documenting agreed parenting arrangements in a parenting plan, including the practical arrangements for your children’s care.
Relocation & Recovery Orders
Advice and representation in relocation and recovery matters, including urgent applications and circumstances where a child’s location or safety is in issue.
Parenting Disputes
Advice and representation where parenting arrangements cannot be agreed, including matters requiring interim or final parenting orders.
Family Dispute Resolution
Advice and preparation for Family Dispute Resolution, including the issues to consider and proposed parenting arrangements.
Parenting matters require a considered approach.
Understanding what matters
We start by understanding your family circumstances, the arrangements currently in place and any issues affecting your children. From there, we provide clear advice about your options and the matters that may need to be addressed.
Finding a workable way forward
Where appropriate, parenting arrangements may be resolved through negotiation, Family Dispute Resolution or agreement between parents. We consider the circumstances and advise on an approach that reflects your children’s best interests and the practical needs of your family.
Representation when required
Where agreement cannot be reached or court proceedings are necessary, we prepare carefully and represent you throughout the process. This may include seeking interim or final parenting orders and responding to issues as they arise.

What to know about family law
Clear answers to common questions about court proceedings and related family law matters.
What is a parenting plan?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents about arrangements for their children. It can cover where children live, the time they spend with each parent, communication, decision-making, holidays and other aspects of their care.
What’s the difference between a parenting plan and consent orders?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents about parenting arrangements, but it is not legally enforceable. Consent orders formalise agreed parenting arrangements as orders of the Court, making them legally binding and enforceable.

Which option is appropriate will depend on your circumstances and the level of certainty and formality required.
Is a parenting plan legally binding?
No. A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents, but it is not legally enforceable.

If legally enforceable arrangements are required, parents may apply to have agreed parenting arrangements formalised through consent orders. Once made by the Court, consent orders are legally binding and have the same legal force as parenting orders made after a court hearing.
How are parenting arrangements decided?
Parenting arrangements may be agreed between parents or, where agreement cannot be reached, determined by the Court. When making parenting orders, the Court must regard the best interests of the child as the paramount consideration.

This includes considering factors such as the child’s safety, any views expressed by the child, their developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs, each parent’s capacity to meet those needs, and the benefit of relationships with parents and other significant people where it is safe to do so.
Do I need to go to court to make parenting arrangements?
Not always. Parenting arrangements can often be made without contested court proceedings through negotiation, Family Dispute Resolution or agreement between parents. Where agreement is reached, arrangements may be documented in a parenting plan or formalised through consent orders.

Court proceedings may be necessary where agreement cannot be reached, or where urgent, safety or other circumstances require the Court’s involvement.
Do I need to attend Family Dispute Resolution first?
In most cases, you must attempt Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) before applying to the Court for parenting orders. If the matter is not resolved, a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner can issue a certificate that may be required before court proceedings can begin.
Exemptions may apply in circumstances including urgency, family violence, child abuse or where a person is unable to participate effectively in FDR.
What if the other parent doesn’t follow the parenting arrangements?
Your options will depend on how the parenting arrangements have been documented. If you have parenting orders, including consent orders, they are legally binding and there may be options available through dispute resolution or the Court if they are not followed.

A parenting plan is not legally enforceable. If the arrangements in a parenting plan are no longer working, legal advice can help you understand the options available, including whether formal parenting orders may be appropriate.
Can parenting arrangements be changed?
Yes. Parenting arrangements can be changed when circumstances change, but the process will depend on how the existing arrangements have been documented.

If parents agree, they may be able to make a new parenting plan or apply for consent orders to vary existing parenting orders. If agreement cannot be reached, changing final parenting orders through the Court generally requires a significant change in circumstances and consideration of the child’s best interests.
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